Just wanted to give some hugs to both of you. Just keep up with the BW stuff. Sooo many times I wanted to give up b/c I didn't think it was working, but then we'd have a breakthrough.
Barbara,
I had a little thought... you probably already know and have thought of. I wondered if you could feed at night in a chair in her room or something. Then she doesn't get used to being in your bed, and you won't have to wean her from that. I completely understand that sometimes it's just a matter of survival... trust me... I have rocked, brought him to my bed, co slept for naps, etc... all in the name of ME getting some sleep too - and just wanting that kid to sleep, no matter what it took. Looking back I think I made things take longer (learning independent sleep, etc...). Don't know if I could have changed things, though, b/c it was so hard at the time.
Hope you both have better days and nights.
Brooke