Hello All!
I have read through some of the posts related to my own dilemma and am still feeling like I am stuck...and will be for some time. Like most, I am 2-3 weeks away from baby #2 and have had my 20 month old in a "bed" (mattress on the floor in her new room) for about 3 weeks now. My DH just got home from work after being gone for 17 days and ever since he got home, putting my dd to sleep/nap is torture!!!!
For the first little while I put her to sleep in her bed, she was fine, then she got up a few times but I would bring her back to bed and that was that. Now, I literally have to sit beside her bed and continuously put her down as she tries to escape from her bed. Then I can spend anywhere up to 2 hours in there until she falls asleep...she doesn't cry, she just gets up and out of bed. It's driving me crazy...maybe this was too soon to move her to a big bed but I think we've invested too much time in to quit now. Does anyone have any suggestions?
She also wakes up at 1:30 am every morning and comes into our bed, is this something that wake-to-sleep would help and if so, how do we do it?
I guess I am just frustrated at being so close to peace, and then shot back down...was hoping to get some rest in before baby#2 shows up, then I guess will present even more problems (dd waking when babes wakes in the night, etc).
Has anyone tried a baby gate at the door to keep them in their room? That was suggested to me, if I close the door on her, she gets hysterical. I'll tell ya, it is getting quite uncomfortable at 37 weeks pregnant to be sitting on the floor in dd's room for over an hour.
If anyone can share success stories, it would be greatly appreciated, or any suggestions.
If dd is tired, we have no problems getting her to nap or go down for the night...but if there is even an ounce of oomph left in her, it's a 2 hour affair and I'm so tired of it.
I miss having her in her crib as she would talk to her stuffed animals for 5 minutes and then was out until morning. Now she wakes in the night and comes to our room and wakes up early. I guess this is good practise for me for when the baby comes...ha ha ha!
Thanks
Janine