update:
Well, yesterday was a huge setback. DS did ok for his first nap (58 mins with 1 resettling), and he ate well, so I was hopeful. By the afternoon nap though, things changed. He only slept for a half hour or so, would not settle back down no matter what I tried. He was cranky and whiney all afternoon. By the time Petra got home I was a wreck. DS ate well, but awoke shortly after 10pm. We had to go in and resettle/put him down for the entire night every 20-60 mins (varied). At times he went right back down, other times he was very awake and crying if we left his room.
I'm trying to gradually wean him from the binkey by not giving it to him until he's in the crib (used to give it when we started our quiet time in the rocker), and I go in at 20 minutes to take it out of hit mouth. Invariably he wakes up within 20 minutes (often only 5-6 mins later) and won't resettle w/o the bink. {oh man....he just managed to climb up onto the window seat, thats about 1 foot high} We're either going to have to go cold turkey soon, or get him about 50 binkeys to line his crib so we can get back to sleeping again.
Petra and I thank you all for the advice by the way.
-Nino (daddy)