I'm dealing with frequent night wakings, 3-4 per night, and that's in addition to a dream feed. I wonder if there's something in my routine that I can tweak to help baby sleep better at night -
- start the day at the same time every day?
- drop the dream feed? (Or is my dream feed too early? -- but that's when I go to bed, too tired to stay up past 10)
- not feed him every time he wakes up at night?
- is there a way to reduce the dirty diapers at night? (the diaper changes wake him up even more)
Some of the night wakings are not even nutritive, out of the past 7 days that I tracked, there were 3 wakings 1.5 hours after I fed him.
He sleeps and naps in his crib; the crib is in my bedroom.
Please let me know what you guys think.
Here's the info:
How old is your child? 3 mo 1 wk
What’s his/her daily routine? Please see pdf attached, roughly: wake up 7-7:30 AM, bed time 7-7:30 PM; 3 or 4 naps; eat every 2.5 - 3 hrs (on the document, the top rows are night feedings)
What’s nap routine? 3 or 4 naps
How long are naps? 45 min to 2.5 hrs, for a total of 3.5 to 5 hours during the day
What's bedtime routine? Time? Bath, nurse, put in the crib. If tired, falls asleep right away. If not, takes 15-30 min to self sooth (not crying)
Do you bottle or breastfed?? Breastfeeding
How much? or how long? How much -- I don't know, my breasts do not have ounce markings
, but he empties the breast pretty well. Feeding takes about 15 min -- he's pretty efficient
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) - Most commonly, just one side
How many wakes per night? 3 to 4; occasionally, 2 but this has becomre rare now that we moved to an earlier bed time
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? Wakes me up by stirring and grunting; acts hungry; eats and often poops, so we do a diaper change. The cycle takes about 30 min.
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? Offer breast (he does not really cry, just stirs a lot)
What have you tried to settle?? Turn on hair dryer (on those occasions when it's been less than 2.5 hours since the last feed, and in those case hairdryer works). If it's been 3 hours since the last feeding, then the hair dryer does not work, and I have to feed him.
What do you do for A time and how long is it? Activity time is 1.5 hrs: eat, tummy time, play with me or toys; in the evening - bath. A time also includes about 15 min wind-down when I place him in the crib ahead of nap time.
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? Not yet
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? No
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? Pacifier
Do they have a lovie? We recently introduced a cloth napkin.