wonder if you can help? A lot of you describe certain methods and sleep issues, but with smaller babies, mine is 18 months and it is getting worse. he is my second baby, DD is now 5 and is a great sleeper.
Ds has become very clingy to me, and if i put him in his cot awake, he just stands up at the end of the cot and just screams and wails. So far i have been soft, i know i have, and after a while have just given in and picked him up, cuddled him to slep and returned him to his cot once in a deep sleep. After a bout of illness, he has started to wake in the night, and now seemingly unable to get himself to sleep, just stands up and cries until one of us caves in, and brings him into our bed, when he is asleep instantly. Neither of us can sleep properly with him on our bed, we aren't comfortable with it and we can't rest, we are exhausted and both work, and this simply cannot continue.
The thing is i find the idea of leaving him to cry awful, he gets so distressed and ends up gagging. Ironically, when he has a nap at nursery, he WILL go to sleep by himself, no problems, no crying, nothing. So i know he CAN do it, he is just old enough now to be a bit more canny and realise that at home, he can do things differently. We have just had a week where things have got worse - he was ill, then DH got it ten times worse, and neither of us have been in a fit state to try and resolve this, we have been exhausted and ill, and doing anything and everything that will ensure we all sleep. As DS has also been ill, sleep training and being strict has been out of the question. Nut he is now waking in the night every night, earlier and earlier, it feels like in a bid to get in our bed as soon as possible!
Advice welcome!