hi, i work full time 5 days a week, my ds is 22 months. i do understand how you feel ...
i have trained myself ...
- to do things as quickly as i can.. use a timer so you can see how much time you need for each job.
- no need to be perfect all the time.
- find things that helps to maximise my job e.g. cleaning wipes, have loads of storage ...etc.
and these routine helps ..
- in the morning, i brush my teeth, wash face..etc together with ds.
- we get dressed together, he will play on our bed when i get dress.
- my outfits don't require much ironing.
- do my make up on the way to work, or when i arrive work.
when i back home from work, i bath ds then we tidy up his toys together. so i have a fairly tidy living room after ds sleeps.
i leave most of the major housework for the weekend while dh look after ds.
hope this helps a little. i must admit i don't have a clean home all the time, i just keep reminding myself, "i am not a superwoman i am not a superwoman..... " LOL .......