Hey guys,
I am seriously losing my mind. DS has never been a good sleeper but I thought we were through the worst of it and on our way towards sleep. Then the separation anxiety thing has taken hold and HOLY COW am I ever DONE with it, LOL!!! His twin sister is OK, thank god...I'm just so afraid that she's going to join in any minute.
Basically what happens is he usually sleeps quite soundly until about midnight (somewhere between midnight and 1am) and then he wakes and stands, screaming until I go to him. Now we've been babywhispering our butts off since they were 4 months so we know enough to not pick him up, and to basically do the p/d part of p/u/p/d. But with this separation anxiety it really doesn't seem to settle him at all (it used to work quite well). He is so loud that he wakes Hazel now so what we've been doing is bringing him into a p&p set up in our room if he seems inconsolable (which for the last couple of weeks he is). He then can usually settle himself but the last 4 or 5 nights he won't settle again for hours, if at all. I had to bring him into bed last night
because DH and I couldn't go THE WHOLE NIGHT without even shutting our eyes. So we got 1-2 hours of sleep and this has been going on for the last 4 or 5 nights. Poor DD was being woken up even though DS was in another room. He's seriously hysterical.
Can anyone offer any suggestions? I have gone down the road of laying on the floor in front of his crib and will do that again but I'm just not sure what, of any of our coping techniques, is the least "accidental", LOL!! If we go with the laying on the floor strategy, how gradual is the exit out of the room? Do I spend 3 nights in one spot, 3 nights a bit further away, 3 more a bit further away than that? Or should I move a bit each night? Do I only start to lay down there once he has his middle of the night waking or should I start my night there when I put myself to bed?
Thanks guys, sorry for the novel...
Sarah