I'm back....
For those of you who may have seen my earlier posts, my LO was habitually waking up between 4:30-5:00am. Several of you felt that it was truly hunger, and that I should feed him when he woke at that time (he usually goes to bed around 6:30-7:00). Well, I started doing that, but for the last week he's been waking earlier, anywhere from 2:50-4:00am. Since I'm trying to wean from bf'ing, I decided a couple of nights ago to only offer him a sippy cup with a little milk in it, rather than getting him up to feed. He'll take the milk, but then he absolutely cannot go back to sleep. For the past two nights when he's woken up around 3am, he's up for 2 hrs! Some of the time he's not crying at all, just up and talking and laughing. But then he'll cry because he's frustrated that we're not taking him out of the crib. I've had to resort to continually rubbing his back and singing to him until he FINALLY gets tired and falls back to sleep. Then he wakes up an hour later for the day
After doing gradual withdrawel successfully about 6 weeks ago, I realize that I've gotten back into the habit of rubbing his back and now when I stop, he gets upset. Last night at bedtime I tried to not touch him as he fell asleep, and it took longer for him to fall asleep as a result (he was standing up and crying for about 20 minutes). Then when he woke at 2:50, DH went in since I was concerned that maybe my presence is too stimulating for him. He tried not giving him any milk at first, just patted him and verbally reassured him. An hour later, he finally offered him some milk, which he drank. Then he was wide awake, and DH decided to stay in the room but not pat or sing. He cried hysterically of course, and finally, around 5:00am he got so tired he gave up and went back to sleep.
So, my big question is.....are we ready for wi/wo? I'm not sure if we're ever going to get any further with gradual withdrawel. And, we're leaving town in a week, to stay at my parents' for one week, where Leo will share a room with us (there's a crib in the room we stay in). I really don't want to have these wee hour crying sessions with the rest of the family being woken up.
What should I do?
p.s. for those of you not familiar with our schedule, here it is:
6:00 wakeup and nurse
7:00 breakfast
9:30 snack
11:00 lunch
12:00 nap (this can last anywhere from 1.5 to 2 hrs)
2:30-3:00 snack
5:00 dinner
6:00 nurse
7:00 bedtime/asleep