I've been trying to wait this little problemo out but it seems it's becoming more of a pattern than a problem so here ya go...
My 10 month old is going through this nap difficulty stage and I think the problem with it lies in
1. A time lengths
2. her feeling the need to talk/play/practice developmental stuff in her bed before going to sleep, no matter how tired she is and
3. getting a little overtired b/c of 1 & 2
She currently (and for a long time has) does very well with 2.5 hours A time after morning wake up, 3 hours between naps 1 & 2, and 2.5 hours before bedtime. But since she is taking a while to go to sleep, these times are being stretched. And I think she is getting overtired from this, plus there aren't enough hours in the day to support this schedule of sleep. For example, if she takes a good long nap in the AM, it takes forever for her to fall asleep in the PM and then it has to be an ultra-short nap for her to be up by 4:30 which allows a 7:00 PM bedtime, the latest her little body can seemingly handle without having night-time difficulties. And that ultra-short PM nap seems to screw with night time sleep in itself. See what I mean?
SOOOOO, my question is do I purposely shorten the AM nap to ensure a better PM one (dunno if this would work, didn't a couple months ago but that was then) therefore helping night time sleep stay in place? Or do I lengthen A times? But if I do this we just seem to run out of time. Like here was our dilemma today, just an example...
7:45 wakeup (this was b/c she talked from 4:30-5:30 this AM, ugh-if she doesn't do this we have a wake up more around 6:30)
Nap #1 (in bed 10:15, asleep by 10:45) woke her at 12, so 1 hour 15 min nap
Nap #2 (in bed 2:30 working on the assumption that she needed to play a little but it backfired...asleep by 3:45) will wake her at 4:30, so 45 min nap
Bedtime 7, will probably wind down on her own til 7:15-7:30
BLECH! I'm thinking we def need to start our day earlier BUT I know from experience, on these days that she has had a night time wakeful period and DOESN'T get to sleep late, she gets overtired even before her 1st nap and we have a rough day. The days DO seem to go better with a 6:30 wake up but we still usually have the problem of a longer AM nap and then trouble in the afternoon, pushing that nap too late and it's too short to prevent overtiredness through the night.
Am I making sense?
This is not a horrific problem by any means, just a little annoying. We aren't having terrible trouble with night wakings, just every so often and they are usually short... I can just see this developing and I think it's going to take intervention to solve it rather than just time.
Thanks for any ideas!