HI
My son Jakob was up until 3 weeks ago,easy to put to bed.We have had ups and downs due to teething but managed to get back on track.
Now the problem is he wont lie down for bed.He gets straight up as soon as i leave the room and insists on playing in his cot.This can go on for over an hour.Sometimes he then cries,sometimes he goes to sleep. Im not sure if this is a problem but im very aware that when he goes to sleep late we get night wakings or early wake ups.
So bedtime goes like this; I put him down at 7-7.30 depending on how his pm nap went. I no sooner tuck him in and he is out again.He laughs madly at me as he does it!! GRRR!!
Okay,no major i first thought i just forget about the covers, which is fine it is summer supposedly her in NZ but he gets straight up then too.Tonight i spent 45 mins laying him back down every time he got up.I actually thought i had ,after 75 lay downs, won the battle but NO! Just as his breathing gets slow and steady and he relaxes,this major surge happens and he is full of life ready to start all over again. I did another 20 lay downs,laying him down straight away when he got up.He got really angry and seemed to drain himself to the point of sleep BUT AGAIN he recouped and started it all over again!!!!!
Oh how id love his energy!!!
Despite my resolve to deal with this,
Bad me,I gave up.I just couldnt do it anymore tonight My back hurt from leaning over the cot so much and im dead tired and didnt want to get upset at him.So i left him to it and came straight here to vent and seek help.
My questions are
* When i put him down at night should i just leave him be? Is it really a problem if he plays before he sleeps or am i creating a problem by trying to make him simply lay down and go to sleep??
* If i need to teach him that bedtime means to lay down NOT get up then what on earth do i do and how do i not give up after soooo many lay downs??
I would love some advice so if anyone can help that would be fantastic
Thank you
Kirstyxxx