Hey Becky-if it's teeth then he's been teething his whole life LOL! I do think that it could be teeth. He often wakes about 4-6 hours after i give him Tylenol or Motrin...so when the meds would be wearing off. I've tried homeopathic teething tablets and teething gel too. sometimes they work, sometimes not.
I would like to think that he's just overtired. That to me would seem very easy to fix. However, I am either a very bad BW mommy and can still not read my child or he just needs less sleep. it can be 7:30 pm, 5 hours after waking from nap and he's playing happily on the floor with his Thomas train...quietly pushing him along saying "choo choo, open door, tank you"...I would think if he was truly overtired he would be kind of out of control running around. Sometimes he's like that if I let it get too late...but I would say 90% of the time he seems fine
After seeing a post about how to choose between wi/wo and gradual withdrawl i've decided to switch to GW. I've tried wi/wo too many times and now Cole knows I will cave in the middle of the night. My strategy is to find a time where he goes down easily, wakes less frequently (or not at all) and sleeps until a reasonable time. Until i find that schedule I am sleeping on his floor next to him.(to regain trust, maintain consistency and get him back to sleep as fast as possible) Sat. night he was down by 8:45 after a later than normal nap and waking at 7:30am (so down 45 min. earlier than I expected). He fought it a bit because it was new, me being on the floor. He woke at 1:00 asking for milk, but i persevered and only gave water, but he was up 2.5 hours trying to go back to sleep. He was up for the day at....you guessed it, 6:45 am
Last night he was down by 8:30, only taking 10 min. to fall asleep and he had woken from another late nap at 3:45 (fell asleep in car for 10 min. then wouldn't go back down, had to resort to a car nap later on
Anyhoo, he didn't wake until 3:30am and was back to sleep by 4:15 after I gave him some milk (he hasn't been eating well and he pretty much stood up and said "milk") then up at 6:30, i gave him some water and went to cuddle on the couch to wake up and he turned over and slept until 7:30! so...around 11 hours. Unheard of. soooo, i will continue to work on getting him more sleep and trying to overcome the overtired monster, if that is what is causing us trouble.
The only think now is I wonder how I will wean the handholding at bedtime. Cole has never been good with me in the room. If I'm there he needs to be touching me...that's why i always tried wi/wo before. I guess i'll have to endure some more crying when i want to wean the hand.
I tell you, I don't miss the tears at bedtime. wi/wo was tearing me apart!
ttfn and happy new year