How old is your baby. I am guessing she is still pretty young. With Riley, I just kind of went with the flow. I found switch feeding worked well to keep him awake ie feed for about 5 mins first side until he slowed down, stopped actively sucking, or fell asleep, then burped him to rouse him and switched to the other side. I would switch back and forth as long as he was interested. As he got older, he got more alert and this was less of an issue for us. Some Moms do only nurse from one side per feed anyway. I never did pump, things just fell into place themselves.