Meg - He isn't in daycare at the moment, but may start 2 mornings a week from 9:15 - 12:15...So nap will have to be when we get home - which we live close by, so should be by 1 the latest..
No yesterday he took a 2.5hr nap at 11:30 - 2:00 - bedtime at 7 woke today at 5
If he initially wakes at around 5/5:30 and goes back to sleep and is up again 6:30ish or later, he won't catnap, and then we do one long nap - which can range from 1hr 15min - to 2hr 30 min...and this usually falls about 4.5/5hrs after wake up..and then 5hrs to bedtime - is that right?
So we go back and forth...depending on what time he wakes up..
Today was very strange. He woke at 5 (bedtime last night 7 - so again 10hrs), moaned and whined for 30 minutes - (normally he's ok to stay in there for awhile), I'm sick myself and DH has had the night shift and wanted to know what to do - I was so tired and frustrated that I told him to give him a little milk and put him back - so he changed him, gave him milk and put him back - this was at about 5:45 - he moaned on and off until 6:20 at which point he finally drifted back to sleep and was still sleeping at 8:00
I woke him up because then ofcourse the whole day would have been thrown off...
SO now he's asleep again at 12:30 for his nap..(we had a very busy morning)..
I don't want to start the milk habit again, but..
Oh and wi/wo won't work I don't think - I've tried before and he just gets more and more wound up..I guess I could keep trying that, but he is very spirited hysterical..
So any thoughts?
Zaibun