Hi, well this is going to be long! Ds is 9 1/2 months. Has never slept well. He is now waking 5-7 times a night, or more, pretty much hourly. I am trying to implement the easy method and am moving his last bf/bottle more and more away from sleep time. Although really it is still just before bed/naps but I am cutting him off before he gets too sleepy. I know I need to work more on this, I am just so tired and not wanting to fight with him that I don't care most days, to be honest. I have been taking him to bed with us halfway through the night (or earlier) and he doesn't sleep any better, still waking so often to nurse. I am seriously considering weaning because it is just so easy to bf him and I give in all the time
Add that too all his teeth and my very sore nipples and I cringe at the thought these days of nursing!
Schedule:
wake about 6:30-7 (bf)
play
breakfast an hr later 8ish
about 15 minutes before nap bf
9-930 nap (usually 45min-1hr)
play
lunch or snack at about 11 then nurse
play or we go downtown at this point usually
get home, another snack usually
play
bf and nap anywhere between 130-230
this nap varies, he almost always wakes after 1/2 hr and 90% of the time I nurse him back to sleep. (Bad habit!) BUT, I've tried pu/pd, just shushing him, rocking him, nothing works, or has worked anyways to get him back to sleep. He gets very worked up and then won't sleep at all anymore. In these cases I will get him up and usually an emergancy nap is needed about 430 or so.
Supper around 530-6
Bedtime is bath naked time, bottle, and bed. He always goes down very easy for night.
Bed is 730-8
He doesn't like me rocking him, arches his back and pushes me away (usually). He doesn't usually like me touching him at all when I put him down in crib, he will push my hand away, although sometimes he likes to hold my hand (after pushing me away the last 10 times) till he falls asleep. I have been working on teaching him to lay back down and go to sleep on his own for a week now (JUST ON THE NAPS), and it is going quite well. Naps used to take 1/2 hr or more and me nursing 2 or 3 times and/or rocking to sleep. Now I have been laying him back down over and over and over and then letting him finally lay himself down when he gets exhausted enough! I do have this down to 5 - 10 minutes now.
Nights - I don't know why he is waking so much, although my instinct tells me he just wants my boob. I also think that he stands up while he is pretty much still asleep and then wakes up standing and doesn't really know how to lay back down, although he will drop to sitting. I know if I just don't help him at this point that he will learn to lay down, but I am having a very hard time hearing him cry and not going in.
~sigh~~ I wish there was a miracle cure! lol, I know that we can overcome this with a few nights of tears and no sleep, but I just feel so exhausted that when I wake up I cannot find the energy to do anything other than just nurse him back to sleep! (This is where I think about weaning )
Anyways, any thoughs??? Sorry this is so long!
Sorry, things I should have added....
he wont take a soother, I bf only one side a time, play time includes him getting into everything
basically just exploring, although when it is warm enough we go outside and i pull him around in tobogan for some fresh air. When he wakes at night it starts out as a mantra cry but within a minute is an all out 'I know your out there, come get me' cry. he always goes right to sleep after feeding, which takes 5-10 minutes (always has been a quick nurser, even when awake). He is a very good eater (solids) and will eat 4 meals a day no problem. I also bf about 430-5ish for the last time that day, and I give him a bottle of formula before bed (7-8 oz) He also drinks water throughout the day (not much, maybe 2 oz?)
TIA....