Play with your toddler, but next to her rather than with her on your lap. Try not to play with the same toys as she is, play with something else, if she comes to play with it, move over to something else.
If she wants to be in the kitchen when you are trying to prepare food, empty a cupboard and put things in there that she can play with, ie, tins of beans, saucepans, spoons etc.
If I think of anything else I will post.