I thought the A time should be longer too, but I'm so scared she'll go overtired, I think sometimes I start the nap routine too early. It's like when you're on the bus and someone tells you you need to go down two blocks before 2nd avenue, but you don't know where the 2nd avenue is exactly!
I can keep her busy without a problem, but with so much crying, I fear the overstimualtion... And anyway, she always cries no matter what the A time is...
She can't relax on her own, the only times she'll fall asleep on her own is when she just nursed and relaxed on the breast. Otherwise, she cries, fusses, squirms and needs our help 75% of the time.
When I ask about CIO, I wonder if I should let her try to calm down herself because I'm not sure if I'm always there she's learning anything. And the 5 minutes are turning into WAY more than that, 15-20 minutes, most of the time. Sometimes it looks like a mantra cry, but it quickly escalates.
The rest of the day is not so good either. Today, the second nap was very long, and I let her sleep knowing she wouldn't have a third one. If she wakes up past 3:30, there's no way she'll sleep again. Otherwise, we sometimes manage a short nap around 4:30-5 PM, but it's very short and it involves a lot of crying too. We do the bath around 7, a last feed around 7:30 and bedtime around 8. Sometimes, she'll wake once during the night, but lately, she's been waking up 2-3 times. I won't feed her before 7-8 hours of sleep.
I wonder if I should let her try to fall asleep more on her own or if the crying indicates she's insecure and needs more reassurance...