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Offline ElizaG

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where on earth to start?
« on: February 06, 2007, 19:19:06 pm »
Hello all, I'm sorry to make my first post on here a plea for help - I hope one day I can reciprocate and help someone else out!

My baby is 5 months old, has been exclusively breastfed up until a week ago and is just starting on a few tastes of solids and being offered some formula when he's with grandparents (yes, I know about the 6 month guidelines  ;))

We don't have a routine as such.  It's chaos!  The main problem is that he only sleeps for between 45 minutes and 2 hours at night, then wakes and needs feeding back to sleep.  I've tried a dummy (pacifier), I've tried cuddling him back to sleep, shush-pat but nothing doing and in the interests of sleep I feed him.

He has 3 or 4 naps a day, no more than 30 minutes each - as soon as he stirs, he wakes himself up.

I think he's exhausted and getting into a cycle of being sleep deprived.

The problem is that I have ME (or Chronic Fatigue Syndrome) and it's really causing me problems - I now can't sleep even when he's asleep due to the insomnia I get when I'm run down.  I've been diagnosed with PND as well, not surprisingly.

He sleeps in our room in a sidecar cot, often ending up in our bed as he wakes up and we have to start all over again as soon as he goes back into his bed.

Help???

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Re: where on earth to start?
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2007, 21:09:00 pm »
I am sorry things are caotic right now. Sounds like a good routine would help the both of you.  Are you trying to get him on EASY.  Can you post his eating/napping sch during the day for us?  An overtired baby will have more trouble sleeping at night.
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Re: where on earth to start?
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2007, 21:20:26 pm »
Have you read any of Tracy's books?
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Re: where on earth to start?
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2007, 21:56:45 pm »
Hi,
A routine will help both of you a lot! Please post your naps and feeds :)