I was going to ask about that today!! I do pu/pd but it doesn't seem to work very well, he starts crying as soon as I set him down. Shh pat works better, but I have a bad back, and I can't lean over his crib for that long. When he's really upset, I will take him out and read to him, but that is probably not the right thing to do. It seems like if he can see me, I have no hope of getting him to fall asleep. It was actually funny the other night, my husband likes to play with a laser pointer with baby B (he loves finding it on the wall, roof, floor, etc). I was very tired and at my wits end, so I finally grabbed the laser pointer, pointed it at the wall, and slowly backed out of the room! It took about 15 minutes but it worked!! Of course that was after we had already been up for a couple of hours but now I keep the laser pointer by my bed! Any other ideas would be appreciated!