I know I have posted several times asking questions about how to help with this and that and the other, but I just can't seem to get things to go smoother.
my 12-week-old (almost 3 months) has had a few nights where she wakes 5 times a night. my husband and I are going crazy because we can't function during the day on 4.5 hours of broken up sleep. here is what a typical day at home sort of looks like (it gets messed up when we go out and about):
W: 7:30 AM (between 1 and 7:30 W)
E: a total of 3-4 oz (some EBM some Formula)
S: 8:50 - 10:55 (almost 2 hour nap, which I woke her from)
E: a total of about 4 oz (some EBM some Formula)
S: 12:25 - 1:10 (45 minute nap after trying w2s)
E: a total of 3-4 oz (some EBM some Formula)
S: 2:30 - 3:10 (40 minute nap after trying w2s)
E: about 3 oz (some EBM some Formula)
S: 4:30 - 5:15 (45 minute nap)
E and A (bathtime, read story)
S: 6:45 PM (bedtime usually ends up around 7-7:30, depending on how her day pans out)
we have been struggling with 45-minute naps for a while, and for the last couple weeks we have been extending her awake time from one hour to between 1.25 hours and 1.5 hours. and we have been trying to gently wake her into light sleep (w2s) around the 35-40 minute mark.
at night, I started doing dream feeds a couple weeks ago. I thought they were sort of working, but maybe they aren't anymore! I start out nursing at night but then switch to formula that my husband brings me after maybe 5 minutes of nursing. with these numerous wakings, she doesn't eat much.
after reading, I realize she shouldn't be waking more than twice at night, which she used to do. in fact, she was waking only once at night for a while.
how should we try to put her to sleep? when should we feed her and when should we not? suggestions?
thank you in advance!