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Offline katriona

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i really miss b/f
« on: February 22, 2007, 04:38:33 am »
so this is a little weird... DS has been self-weaned for about three months now, and i really, really miss it. i miss the closeness of it with DS, but also just the physical act of nursing. i guess it felt like my boobies finally had a "proper" purpose. maybe i'd have felt different if i'd been the one who had chosen to wean? and i can't say there weren't days i didn't wish he would, finally  :P i don't want to sound too silly, but i have little daydreams that i just pop him back on there, and away we go again! i know i just need to get over this and plan for LO #2. in the mean time i'm going to treat myself to some pretty, non-nursing bras! time to throw away the old dingy greys!

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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2007, 04:45:13 am »
i can just amagine, i felt the same with dd1, oh yes those old dingy greys, hugs
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2007, 08:41:52 am »
More big HUGS.
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2007, 12:29:48 pm »
I feel for you! I have a friend who's trying to conceive and had to wean to do it and she gets this intensely wistful look on her face every time she sees me nurse Samantha.  :(
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2007, 12:32:18 pm »
I felt the same it does go away! Hugs
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2007, 12:45:13 pm »
{{{{Hugs}}}} Katy.  Not looking forward to that day  :-*
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2007, 16:51:45 pm »
HUGS!!  I love the new pic of Theron too!
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #7 on: February 23, 2007, 21:40:45 pm »
{{{HUGS}}}  I think the only thing that kept me from being super sad when Lilah weaned at 22 months was the fact that I way already 3 months pregnant and knew I'd be doing it again soon.  That said, I actually do still miss nursing Lilah, my first baby... sigh. :'(
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #8 on: February 23, 2007, 21:43:27 pm »
Commiserations Katy. I bf Callum for the last time last night. Not missing it yet, but I'm sure I will.  :-*
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #9 on: February 24, 2007, 02:49:57 am »
Big tight HUGS to you!!!  :-* :-*

I can only imagine... and already, I am so not looking forward to that day for us.  :'(

Hope it gets better for you!
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #10 on: February 24, 2007, 02:54:20 am »
I chose to wean Jessica only a couple of days before finding out I was pregnant.  I miss it ALL the time!  She was losing interest fast so I took her cues...but I really miss the closeness. I long to bf this new one!  I hope it is as much of a rewarding experience as it was with Jess.

HUGS...I know how you feel!   :-*
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #11 on: February 24, 2007, 13:37:08 pm »
I am just learning (and continue to learn everyday) how complex are the variety of emotions we experience as mothers....

Ana :)
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #12 on: February 24, 2007, 13:56:11 pm »
(((((((hugs)))))))))) Katy

I still feel that way sometimes and DD self weaned at 16months! 
Good excuse for shopping for new bra's too!  ;D
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Re: i really miss b/f
« Reply #13 on: February 24, 2007, 14:22:55 pm »
I know how you feel. I still miss nursing my Lo but it was my choice to wean.

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