Hello. I hope someone will be able to offer me some advice as my DD's night-wakings are becoming a real nightmare for me & DH. She is 6.5 months and an average day looks like this:
Wake-between 6.20-6.45 stays in cot
E - 7.00 milk & then solids at 8.00 (2-4oz)
S - 9.00 (varies 1hr/1.5hrs/1.75hrs)
E - 11.00 milks & then solids at 12.00 (2-3oz)
S - depends on wake-up time, aim for 2-2.5hrs awake time, nap can be 45min or 1.5hr/1.75hr
E - 3.00 - milk (2-3oz)
S - again depends on wake up time, aim for 2hrs/2.25hrs awake time, normally 30-40min nap
E- 5.00/5.30 - solids
6.30 - into pjs
E - 7.00 milk - 2-3oz (I try to put her down after this feed but she is starting to resist and can take over an hour for her to fall asleep)
E - 10.00/10.30pm - milk feed 1-4 oz, usually wakes around this time
We have had problems with night wakings for a while but they have gotten worse in the last week and we are starting to have problems with DD fighting the cat nap and fighting bedtime. The NW's are usually 1.00am ish, 2/3am ish and then 5.30am ish. However, they can also be as early as 12.00 and are not at a set time. DD usually wakes up at 10/10.30 and I will give her a final feed, although I wonder if this could be the problem and I should be resettling her instead and if this feed is affecting her others as she is a small milk drinker?
The other possible causes I have come up with are teething (although I gave her medicine before bed and she still woke up), developmental - she has started to roll from back to front in the last couple of weeks and gets stuck on her front (although this has only happened during the night once), AP- when me & DH replace her dummy in the night- this is usually enough to resettle her. In the last few days she has started shrieking/screaming the second we leave the room when we try to put her down for the night and is smiling again when we return. She also rolls around her cot, shuffles up to the other end and enjoys banging her dummy against the cot bars instead of sleeping. We don't have these problems with the first 2 naps though (touch wood!)
In desperation, we have taken her into our bed on a few occassions when we can't resettle her in the night and she usually goes right back to sleep. I don't want this to be the norm but am getting so tired have given in to it.
If anyone can make any suggestions or can spot something in our routine that may be the cause of these dreaded night wakings, I will be very grateful. I am hoping we can nip it in the bud before it gets too established.
Thanks in advance.