Thanks Kate, I might try changing the order of things before PUPD - it's certainly worth a try!
However I did try PD last night and surprisingly it worked! She woke about 10pm and there was something going on, she was crying hard, pushing me away and arching her back...I cracked open the door and called for DH and for some reason this made her stop in mid scream. I held her for a minute then put her back in her bed, she started to fuss but I kept my hand on her and spoke softly to her and she fell asleep pretty quickly. I expected her to wake again after this but she slept through til 4:30am!!!!!!! I fed her and she slept til 6:50.
Now if I can just find the thread for mums waking at 3:30am with insomnia...
