Hi! Gosh we are in same boat. I was just thinking of posting the same thing. Although Thomas is happily eating stuff, his evening bottle (the only one of the day) is now becoming a no go zone. He is also teething badly. I figure there is nothing I can do, but surf this one out. He has been waking very early in the morning, like 4.30 , so I am having to give him a bottle then. He feasts on this, and then gives me a blissful hour or two of sleep thereafter.
I have found with the teething he has really enjoyed chewing on bread crusts and wierdly enough chewy salami sticks??? (Happened by accident whne he stole one off my plate.) he doesnt swallow it but I think the chewing in nice for him. I also found that some days were better than others. I just kept offering him food and he would take it or leave it.....
In answer to you question, and having been through great fluctuations of appetite of my lo, I would not worry. Can you give her some pain relief? SOme mums are really funny about giving them it, but my thinking is -if they are in pain I will do anything to take it away, and if it means a glug of calpol then so be it! I found, then he suddenly ate better and even took some of his bottle.hang in there those darned toothypegs will pop out eventually! Hugs Anna