Hi there,
I recently saw a posting on spirited babies and short naps, but I can't find it again to add this there. Oops.
Josie is 22 weeks, on a standard 4-hr. EASY. I have always struggled with her naps (except the catnap is fine), and have had to soothe her back to sleep between 1-any number of times. She won't do sh/pat or pu/pd, so we use hands-on chest and legs.
Just recently her morning naps have seemed to be smoothing out. Whereas she would have frequent fussy wakings after the first 30-40-min. marks, and I would soothe her back down until she'd been in her crib for the full two hours, she now wakes at around 1.5 hr. babbling happily, so I let her get up and play quietly until the 11 a.m. feed. She might go down for this first a.m. nap at 8:45-9. Sometimes she does still need help getting back down to sleep, but it's manageable.
Her cues say she's ready for nap 2 between 12:45-1, at 12:45 I take her to her room and begin the calm wind-down to catch the cues when they start. We read quietly in the rocker. Then after the cues, go to the crib, swaddle, darken the room together, rock for a few min., and go into crib awake and settled down to sleep once in the crib.
She is swaddled tightly to aid in napping. Swaddling her gets her really worked up, so I recently started using a paci during the swaddle to keep her calm. Then I take it out once we get back to the rocker.
I have tried to keep the last 30 min. of A time before nap 2 calm. For example, if we might walk in the stroller, and she looks sooo laid back. Or she plays with some soft, non-noisy toys. Or ... you get the drift. But still, at 30 min.-45 min. she is screaming. It takes a LONG time sometimes to settle her back down. Today, I had to spend basically the remainder of a 2-hr. nap after 30 min. in her room with her with hands-on chest and legs. And she's 5.5 mo., and we've been doing this since she was 6 wks. (longer naps now, of course). Now, there have been a handful of times when she's slept through an entire 2 hrs., and I celebrate those.
But any ideas on making those more standard?
I worry a bit, because she hasn't even made it out of swaddling yet. She starts daycare this summer--August--but I'd like to take her there occasionally from now until then just to get to know the gal, get used to being there, etc., and I know a daycare provider can't do what I do each p.m. nap, you know? That's a slightly different issue, I know, but you can see why I'd like to get this problem solved now.
Thanks so much for any help.