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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #375 on: August 30, 2007, 15:43:49 pm »
Hi Pauline!  I do milk first - partly as it fits our day better and partly as I know milk is more important...

We do milk at 7am, 11am, 3:30 or 4pm (depending on when wakes from nap) and 6:30pm
Solids at 8am, 1pm and 5pm

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #376 on: August 30, 2007, 20:36:50 pm »
Hiya Bryony,

That is helpful.  So about an hour after millk, apart from lunch?  Alice can't really stay up any longer than about 2 hours at a time, then she really starts to grumble for bed.  Do you find that your daughter is hungry enough to eat solids after milk?  Alice just isn't a hungry baby, I haven't got a clue what her hungry cry sounds like, as she just never cries for food.

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #377 on: August 31, 2007, 00:24:57 am »
hey Pauline!

BLW is also about letting them eat when you eat.  so when you eat bf, lunch and if you can dinner then that is good.  just give her a little and let her watch you.  she won't eat much at first so dont' worry.  L was also a short A time at that age, so you kind of have to time it so she is hungry enough, but not too tired as if she is tired she won't eat either.  Just keep offereing and she willlet you know when she want's more.  rEmember milk is the most important food source until 1 year.

hth enjoy your hols.!
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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #378 on: August 31, 2007, 07:04:20 am »
Pauline - no, she's not really that hungry - but my understanding is that at this age it's more about experimenting, learning to pick it up and put it in the mouth, rather than calorie intake...    Katie isn't a "hungry" baby either - she will happily drain a boob if it's put in her mouth but never seems to get hungry enough to ask for it. 

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #379 on: August 31, 2007, 17:47:38 pm »
Hello!  My ds is 7mths now & loves blw-ing.  I posted ages ago, but have mainly been lurking as I never know what to say!  lol.  He's been doing really well, hasn't refused a single thing we've offered.  But I was wondering when to move beyond 'stick' of food?

Am I right in thinking that the theory behind blw is that if they can pick it up, then they are developmentally ready to digest a food?  It's just that he can already pick up raisins, so does this mean he can eat them?  Aren't they a little too small?  Would cut up grapes be more appropriate?  Oooh, I love blw, but it's so hard trusting your lo at times!

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #380 on: August 31, 2007, 21:15:28 pm »
Bloomin' heck! Been away for a week and have had to catch up with pages and pages! What a busy lot you've been!

Miki - Eryn is on cow's milk 'coz she's now 14 months, it was a bf or bottle of EBM before then - she hated formula!

Loading up the spoon - I believe that BLW is just that, baby-led! Therefore, if baby presents you with a spoon and says 'ta' (well, that's what Eryn does, but she's a bit older than most of yours now ;)) then she's leading you to fill it up for her so she can pop it in her mouth - I'd put the spoon on the tray and see if your los are interested in using it, if they are, help them, if not, well we all know that fingers are brilliant tools for the job!

Safe-feeders - I'm with whoever (sorry, can't remember which of you it was :-[) said that these feeders are simply another tool to help babies to self-feed. Some of those foods are rather slippery, Eryn just ignored anything she couldn't grasp until she could, but if your los are happy to gnaw thru a safe-feeder then they are still feeding themselves which is what it's all about :D!

Sarah13h - grapes, raisins, cherry tomatoes etc all still come out the other end more-or-less intact (nice!), so even at 14 months, with a highly developed pincer grip, Eryn doesn't really digest some foods, probably because she can't really chew them up without back teeth! If ds is able to pick up little pieces and safely manipulate them in his mouth, I don't see why you can't offer them to him :-\

And to everyone, don't forget that if you do get a bit 'lost' there is the FAQ post https://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=92560.0 and the Gill Rapley article that I posted on page 16 reply #237 of this thread to help you to refocus on the whys and hows of it all!

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #381 on: August 31, 2007, 23:47:22 pm »
Samantha loves grapes - if they're small enough, I cut them in half, or larger ones in quarters.  Her pincer grip has improved leaps and bounds since I started offering them - must be good motivation!  ;D
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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #382 on: September 01, 2007, 15:40:46 pm »
Well ... After all my talk about BLW, we're finally doing it!!!

DH has been at home all week (hence, I've not been logging on and posting much!) so has been able to share in the fun  :)

So far Anna has tried broccoli, carrot, green beans and Heinz 'biscotti' biscuit.  She definitely knows what to do with it - picks it all up, and then it goes straight into the mouth. But mostly that's all!!  Nappy evidence suggests that some of the broccoli went in (!) but she doesn't seem too impressed with the texture.  I didnt get the carrot soft enough so she gummed at it for ages, but nothing went in. She really had a good go at green beans, though, as they do sort of disintegrate after gumming! 

We've only been trying food at 11am as a sort of early lunch (!), in the middle of her 10-12 A time.  By the time she's had milk, a nappy change, waitied a while till she's likely to be hungry again, I've steamed some carrot, she's had 20 minutes in a high chair, and I've cleaned up, that's most of her A time gone, though!!  We tend to be out for coffee/mums and toddlers/bible study/other stuff most mornings, and she's not going to be capable of eating in public for a while yet - far too messy!  So I'm thinking that this week we ought to try eating at 3pm instead of 11.

How soon should we be moving to 2 and then 3 meals a day?  And how on earth will I fit them in?! 

I'd just started to feel like we had a decent routine going that allowed for us being out in the mornings, and was getting good at squeezing outings into the 2 hour gap between sleeps!  Feels a bit like we're now going to lose all that again  :(
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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #383 on: September 01, 2007, 16:31:59 pm »
Cathy - I did our first "meal" at 5pm for exactly that reason - we were usually out in the mornings...  breakfast is also easy as we do this at 8am in between getting up and first nap. We've only recently introduced lunch, which now works out OK as Katie's morning A time is now 3 hours - so there is more time to play with!

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #384 on: September 01, 2007, 18:05:53 pm »
Bryony - That does help. Thanks!

I think breakfast will have to wait a while - Anna's really rubbish first thing in the morning (like her mummy!!)  She wakes at 7am and by 8 she is DESPERATE to be back to sleep. So she just squezes in milk, playing with daddy and getting washed and dressed and then she is flaked out.  Which suits me fine, as it means she is back up again by 9.30/10 for us to go out.  But I don't think she'd have the energy for breakfast as well!   So I think we will major on afternoon food whilst we are still getting the hang of it, and re-introduce elevenses once we both know what we are doing and can find things that she might possibly eat when out, without making TOO much mess!!

Very encouraging to hear that A time might possibly stretch to nearer 3 hours in another 6 weeks or so, which should make it all a bit less manic cramming everything in!  I was forgetting that every time you think you've got things sussed, it all changes  ;)
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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #385 on: September 01, 2007, 18:11:11 pm »
I was forgetting that every time you think you've got things sussed, it all changes  ;)

Doesn't it just !!   :)

Also meant to say - sounds like you are doing great, all that food that she's tried!  Attagirl Anna...!

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #386 on: September 01, 2007, 18:38:44 pm »
Hi, back from holiday and Sam impressed everyone with his BLW skills!!! Ate out in a restaurant and he had some roast turkey etc with me and people couldn't believe how good he was!  He's not cutting his top 2 teeth too, so there'll be no stopping him  ::)

Welcome to all the new ladies on here, I look forward to getting to know you.

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #387 on: September 01, 2007, 20:04:33 pm »
Thanks Freya's Mum for the reminder about blw theory.  Guess I'll just have to be brave & try him out with smaller chunks of food & see how he gets on.

CathyD, we had the exact same problem you've described.  Ds's A time is now 2.5hrs, slowing being extended to 3hrs, and this has made a huge difference.  Feel like I'm actually getting my life back!

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #388 on: September 01, 2007, 21:32:39 pm »
Good stuff Cathy!!  Yes, when you get 3 meals a day it seems that all you do is bf, feed and get them to sleep.  You'll know when she needs more than one feed aday.  early days yet so don't worry too much just yet.  I go out now between 10.30bf and 1.30/2pm sleep.  I bring finger foods for her to eat - easy stuff that I know she likes - cheesy toast is a good one.  In the early days, I made lunch the last meal to add in so I could go out more. It worked well.....

YOu've got a little while til you have to worry too much yet!

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Re: Baby-Led Weaning Support Thread
« Reply #389 on: September 02, 2007, 18:06:32 pm »
Can I ask a quick question - mainly for Ali - I seem to recall you saying you hit a phase when Sam started playing "let's throw all my food on the floor so that mummy has to pick it up"?  Well Katie has this week discovered the same game. I was wondering if it had resolved, and how you handled it?

I've been saying "no, we don't throw food on the floor.." and picking it up to put in tray to go into the compost, in the hope that she learns that once it goes on the floor it's game over.  However it's very exasperating as sometimes she throws it all on the floor without eating anything!

Any suggestions?

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