Charlotte is 3.5 (just over) and will only nap during the day if she is really whacked or if she isn't feeling well.
Normally she will wake between 7/7.30 on days when I am going to work - sometimes earlier if I need to be out of the house. At the weekend, she is usually up at 8 ish.
Bedtime is 8pm, this is the earliest I can manage in in the evenings after work - after tea, play, bath etc.
After their tea, I play with them both for a while, and then they have a bath together, then into PJs, downstairs for their bedtime milk, then up to Charlotte's room for story and cuddles, bedtime kisses and Cam goes to bed in his cot in his room and I tuck Charlotte in.
Sometimes Charlotte will read quietly in her room but has usually fallen asleep after about 10 minutes.