Hi Melanie,
yes I agree with Stacy, please post any napping issues in this post only. I have merged your two most recent posts.
We REALLY struggled with the short naps from like the age of 5weeks until 6months old.
I worked very hard at getting Noah back to sleep if he napped short, but if he didn't get back to sleep in that nap, then I always brought my next nap forward and modified my EASY.
So I would suggest:
if only naps for 30min lets say 9:15-9:45, then feed at 11, diaper change, short windown and in to crib no later then 12. I think that 1pm is far too late for a second nap if the first nap is so short. So in this way, you may actually be fitting in 5 X 30-40min nap in the day, and kind of be chasing sleep but I do think it will help her get caught up on some much needed naps and overtiredness.
This is of course a bit of a temporary solution and certainly longer naps would be preferable.
what methods have you tried for extending her naps?
does she cry when she wakes from a short nap?
have you tried adding 15min of A time on to the first activity time?