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was sleeping great, now 45 min naps
« on: June 09, 2007, 03:01:28 am »
my LO just started the 45 min nap thing, the last four days (he's almost 12 wks).  he used to take a LOOONG first morning nap (2 hrs), and then started doing 45 min naps the rest of the day -- then yesterday, ALL his naps were 45 mins, so our EASY went kaput.  i know he's only 2.5 months, but could he be ready for a 4 hr EASY?  we just started transitioning last week into a 3.5 hr EASY because he stopped eating well at the 3 hr mark and started staying awake longer.  he also started waking up in the morning at random times (anywhere from 5 to 7am), even though I feed him at the SAME TIME every night (9pm, working back right now every nite 10-15mins to hopefully eventually end at 7:30-8ish).  The week before this, he was waking erratically at night, not hungry, but just waking up. 

i'm confused mainly because i didn't think DS would be ready for a 3.5 EASY, but now he's hungry on the mark, every 3.5 hours.  is this okay? he seems so young.. i just don't want to rush him into a 4 hour EASY..  and what do I do about these naps?  Today, he had three 45 min naps and one 30 min nap, then bed around 8pm, DF at 9.    I just feel like his 45 min naps and his increasing alertness have screwed up our whole EASY and I don't know where to begin.. (and not only alertness, but all the new noises he's making -- happy squeals and coos and all sorts of stuff -- it's made it hard to read his cues because he doesn't do the same noise for "tired" as he used to and i find that he's sometimes getting overtired).  two days prior, he was having meltdowns at nighttime because his naps were so bad, but today, there was no meltdown. and should I stop changing the last feed at 9pm till we get the 3.5 hr EASY worked out?

sorry, lots of questions mixed up in there..

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Re: was sleeping great, now 45 min naps
« Reply #1 on: June 09, 2007, 03:04:45 am »
What is his awake time?
Could you post your routine before he started doing the 45min naps?

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Re: was sleeping great, now 45 min naps
« Reply #2 on: June 09, 2007, 05:33:34 am »
Just wanted to tag along and see what kind of advice you get...  also, Jeremy was on the 4 hour easy at 2 months and was doing fine with it.  He also just started the 45 minute nap thingy about a week and a half ago.  I've been consistently doing the wake to sleep method and I think I'm getting some progress...  you should check out the 45 minute nap support thread too!
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Re: was sleeping great, now 45 min naps
« Reply #3 on: June 09, 2007, 17:00:34 pm »
Hi there. At 12 weeks we started having similar issues, starting getting shorter naps and dd was getting harder to put down. We had been doing great on 3 hour EASY and were so on guard against overtiredness that we didn't realize we were suddenly dealing with undertiredness, since she could handle longer A times. However, she wasn't ready for 4-hour EASY until closer to 4 months.

In order to get to 4 hour EASY, A times *and* naps have to extend--2 hours is a long A time for 2.5 months, and naps longer than 2 hours (which might be difficult to achieve anyway) could cut into night sleep. If you work on gradually extending A times, the naps should fall into place on their own and he'll get to 4 hour EASY when he's ready. :)
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