hi awake13,
i think layla is right on the mark with the napping.... i noticed you have 3 hrs of awake time before your first nap, and that's probably way too long for a 6 month old; usually they tend to have no more than 2 hrs before that first nap. then, if they are overtired, their nap is too short, because they cannot get into a good deep sleep. this just turns into a viscious cycle - more short naps, and the naps are not restorative either. this also fits with your lo falling asleep on the bottle for the night; he wakes up at the end of his sleep cycle because he does not know how to transition into the next sleep cycle without the bottle in his mouth.
The wakings are at different times each night, but so frequent.
more 'random' waking, as you describe it, can actually indicate hunger. there is a growth spurt at 6 months; any chance you can up his feeding a bit during the day?
I just started trying PU/PD . I am putting him down right away. Everytime for two hours he crys before he even touches the crib. I touch him and reassure. How long before I pick up again, if he is screaming.
this is a link to a sleep interview with tracy; it has a lot of details on implementing pu/pd that should help clarify quite a bit for you. i realize it is long, but that is because it is so full of good stuff!!
https://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=451.0We have let him cry it out for hours, we tried this 3 weeks. It didn't improve one bit. Right now we are caving in for the past few days(dependency).
in the long run, pu/pd will be much gentler on your baby, because you will be right there with him, helping him learn how to go to sleep on his own. from everything you describe, i don't believe that he actually does know how to go to sleep independently - and then stay asleep. (and i'm sure it doesn't help that you have 2 older ones running around as well!
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i picked those particular words to quote because in order for things to change, it is going to take a lot of work. pu/pd will work, but it will be a hard road to travel. he will cry - he does not understand what you are doing, and why you are doing it differently. you will cry, because you are frustrated & tired of the whole thing.
to say it again.... this WILL work, but it depends on you formulating a plan, learning how to watch your baby's cues, and then staying consistent and persistant 100% of the time.
anyhow, have a read & then we can help you clarify anything from that point. you CAN do this!!