Greetings,
My LO is 4 months old, and now we have a problem with night wakings...
He was sleeping full night (from 22:30, when he was dreamfeed until 5:00-5:30 am) since ~ 1.5 months old.
Suddenly around 3 weeks ago he began waking at night.
He doesn't seem to be hungry - when we have growth spurt , we can see it clearly during the day (he eats longer when he's breastfed and he eats more from the bottle - we give him a bottle a couple of times a day, both because I went back to work , and because he's not eating very well when breastfed , keeps turning his head and flailing his arms and sometimes refuses the breast, so I pump and give him in the bottle).
Additionally, when he's hungry he will not settle back to sleep without eating first, and this is not the case with those night wakings...
When he wakes, he starts crying a bit - not a lot, just a bit, we give him some time to try and put himself back to sleep, when this doesn't work my hubby goes and gives him a dummy and he goes right back to sleep.He's waking more or less every 2 hours...For example, tonight - dreamfeed at 22:30 and back to bed at 23:00 - then woke up at 1:00,3:00 ,5:00 and at 5:40 - here I fed him cause he woke up since he was already hungry. Yesterday he woke at 1:40 and 4:00 and then 6:00....So the times are different, but the 2 hour cycle is more or less the same.
His routine is like this - its in transition now since we're moving to 4 hours routine:
E 07:00 or 07:30 (doesn't eat a lot cause he usually eats around 5 or 5:30)
A 08:00
S 09:00
E 11:00 or 11:30
A 11:30
S 12:45
E 14:15
A 14:30
S 15:30
E 17:00 (not a large feed, its more like a cluster feed with the 19:00 feed)
A 17:15 going for a walk in the park
S usually none
A 18:30 massage,bath
E 19:00 -so tired that falls asleep immediately
S 19:30
We also have a problems with naps - naps for 30-40 mins, then wakes (usually crying cause still tired). I try to put him back to sleep, sometimes by holding has hands and legs so he wouldn't wake himself, but this usually doesn't work, he just goes from deep sleep to being awake in a sec - opens his eyes and thats it.
In this case I pick him up and walk around a bit, until I can see he's closing his eyes again and then I put him back in his crib and get another 40 mins of sleep out of him (but I'm pretty sure this time its not deep sleep, he keeps steering).Sometimes I let him sleep on me cause he steers all the time and the slightest movement like me putting him in the crib wakes him...We almost always use a dummy for helping him fall asleep...
He wasn't waking after 19:00 at all, but since those night wakings he usually also wakes around 21:00or 21:30, (not totally, just a bit - starts steering and moaning) - I give him his dummy and put my hand on his chest for 10 mins or so,he calms down and goes back to sleep.
Another thing - may be there's a connection - I went back to work for half a day around the time he begun waking at nights - don't remember what came first
I think thats it with the background info - can anyone figure out what's going on? It's not wakings from hunger and not regular time wakings - so what is it? He's also a bit more upset during the days- but that might be because he doesn't sleep as well as he used to at nights...
At first I thought maybe he was teething, he drags everything into his mouth and tries to chew it and sometimes he cries for no reason during the day...But there's no physical indication for teething yet, his gums are not swollen...And he's a bit young for it too...
And what's with the 2 hours intervals?!
If anybody has any ideas , I would really appreciate it!