Can anybody give me advice about how to drop a night feeding? I'm breastfeeding, so watering down the feeding won't work. I think that getting rid of night feedings is the only solution, but when your baby is in the habit of feedings and gets hungry at those times, what do you do?
I have a five-month-old who is basically on this schedule:
7am wakeup, breastfeed
8am breakfast (solids)
9am nap (usually until about 10:30)
11am breastfeed
12pm lunch (solids)
1pm nap (usually until about 2:30)
3pm breastfeed
5:30pm nap (45 minutes)
6:15pm dinner (solids)
6:45pm start bedtime routine
7:15pm breastfeed
7:20pm bed
This is an idealized schedule, of course. She often takes only a 45 minute nap instead of 1 hr. 30 minutes, especially for the 1pm one, so then I add an extra 45 minute nap at 3. We often end up getting off course during the day, either because she takes forever to go down for a nap or we're running errands or something or other, which is why that last nap usually ends up being at 5:30 or 6 instead of 5, as might be expected. Sometimes we end up with a 4 or 4:30pm nap somehow, so I add a 6 or 6:30pm nap and she goes to bed at 8. I *try* to be consistent, but she isn't!
Anyway, we pretty much go right into dinner and then the bedtime routine as soon as she wakes up from the catnap, but she's still sometimes overtired going down. She generally ends up waking up every hour for the first part of the night, which I know means overtired, but I don't know why she's overtired or what to do about it. Anyway, I'll finally give her a dreamfeed at whatever waking is in the 10:00 hour. She'll generally wake several times at night (12, 2, 4, 5, for instance, but it's very irregular, no pattern whatsoever). I feel like she keeps waking in anticipation of her night-time feeding (she generally needs to eat once or twice in the night). I know it's not habit waking, it's hunger waking, but that's because hunger itself is a habit. I know she's capable of sleeping from the dreamfeed to the morning, but she's gotten in the habit of being hungry during the night. How does one fix that? I really think that the night wakings aren't going to stop until she isn't taking any night feedings.
I can't just "increase intake during the day" easily, as she's a breastfed baby who doesn't seem to want to eat much. She'll nurse for 5 minutes or less at a feeding. Stretching her feedings to 4 hours made no difference, she doesn't seem any hungrier when it's been 4 or even 5 hours since a feeding than she is when it's been 2. We're on solids now, and she eats a lot in the way of solids, but it hasn't made much nighttime difference yet.
Any advice for how to drop the night feeding(s)? I've sort of tried making her wait a bit longer for the feeding every night, but she's so unpredictable that it's hard. Sometimes she takes 2 ounces or less at the dreamfeed, sometimes she takes over 3, even close to 4. So how can I treat every night the same when she isn't always starting with a full tank? She takes maybe 3-4 ounces a feed during normal daytime nursing sessions, I think (judging by what she'll take from a bottle).