my 20 week old's naps are so erratic and irregular that i am starting to really lose my mind now over this whole EASY situation. We are doing more of an EASAEAS at the moment as his naps sometimes are short - 45mins or less. Some days he'll respond well to the shush/pat back to sleep through another cycle, but other days he won't, sometimes he's slept 2 hours nap - so why can't he just do that at every nap time. He has to sleep in every cycle and there is no ways i can get him on a 4hour EASY, he devours 6oz formula every three hours, sometimes can stretch him to 3.5 hours. i think i will start him on solids next week as he is just starting to get really hungry.
The main thing that drives me around the bend is trying to maintain the eating, then activity then sleep because Josh wakes up way too early and its not even time for a feed then, and by the time he's had his feed, he's been awake for nearly 1.5 hours and so is already really really tired, then he has his feed and if i were to follow his cues then i would be putting him to bed straight after his feed, which would then make the next cycle even shorter - its all really beginning to get me down now, been at it for 2 weeks.
On a slightly positive note, his nighttime sleeping seems to be getting better now. he goes go bed at 7pm, has a DF of between 5-6oz at 10:30 or a little earlier, then he's down to waking up about every two hours now rather than every hour after 2am, but he's an early riser, wakes around 5am, then if i swaddle him tight and put his paci back in he'll maybe go until 6am or 6:30.
i just wish his naps would improve and become more regular - is there hope at all? I have read all the FAQ's and understand what i need to do, and its all stuff that i have been doing, it just hasn't seemed to have paid off yet - when should i expect to see some regularity in his napping?
Sorry for the moan, its just starting to get me down now.
xxx
Michelle