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crankiness and grogginess after naps...?
« on: August 02, 2007, 01:47:13 am »
DD is 4 months old and we are on day 3 of the program. it is working very well so far and we are following the clock fairly well this week. next week, we will tweak the routine a bit based on all the observations we've made. however! i am very curious to know why my DD is waking up cranky/whiny and very groggy after having full naps (1.5-2 hours). in fact, i let her sleep 2h20 mins in the AM and 2h5mins in PM because i thought she needed the sleep. not sure if this was the right thing to and what affect this will have on us tonight.

is it absolutely necessary to go in and wake them up by the 2 hour mark? what happens if i don't? how long will the crankiness/grogginess (for at least after 15 mins wake up). is she getting enough sleep or too much? how can i resolve this?

in general she seems much less chatty and excitable than she was last week when we were not on the program. not that she is a different child but it seems like the energy has been zapped out of her and i have to work harder at getting her to smile at me.

thoughts?

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Re: crankiness and grogginess after naps...?
« Reply #1 on: August 02, 2007, 15:59:59 pm »
Can you post your current routine as it is?

Naps are usually recommended to be no longer than 2 hours because then it will rob from night sleep, which you don't want. BUT some babies need more sleep than the average and yours might be one of those.
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Re: crankiness and grogginess after naps...?
« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2007, 19:07:02 pm »
well, we just started the 4 hour program on monday so we're nearing the end of the first week. i know that BW Solves All says to follow the clock as closely as possible for the first week for the purposes of retraining her biorythym BUT she is always sleepy about an hour after she gets up. i have tried to keep her up but that has resulted in her getting overtired and then much harder to put down (and therefore doing the PU/PD which is not fun for either of us). i find that she can last about an hour to an hour and 15 mins after getting up (including feed time!) so today i decided to put her down much earlier. and so we're behind schedule about an hour. not sure how this will go but it just feels better. i hate watching the clock because it just does not seem to jive with her cues.

because we just started, i don't really have a routine other than what the books suggest for a 4 month old (and she is a big girl for her age...about 17+ pounds). she may be going through a growth spurt as well because she guzzled some milk twice last night (1:45am and 5pm), even after a dream feed! i think the book suggests topping her up after each feed with a couple more ounces. even though i am breastfeeding (and i give her both breasts for 30 mins), i was thinking of giving her a bit of formula in a bottle. should i offer her a 5pm feed as the book suggests?

today's routine looks like this:
she showed signs of tiredness around 8am so i put her down thinking she would sleep by 8:15am or so. she didn't fall asleep until 8:45am. she slept for 1h20mins (10:05am). she ate at 10:30am. she had her second nap from 12:30-2pm. fed at 2:30pm. she will likely go down for a catnap around 4.

any thoughts?
Denise