Ok things that have worked: being sleepy. Goes against EASY but she's taken the boob just before a nap and also I have reintroduced the dream feed just to make sure she has three milk feeds a day. She is now consistently not feeding after the morning feed: boob or bottle.
She now has a cold and cough too! We've upped the pain meds and bonjela teething gel which seem to have helped the eating but not the feeding. Sleep is generally still fine.
I'm thinking that if she is refusing both boob and bottle id rather keep trying the boob so my supply isn't affected (if that hasn't already happened as I've not been pumping).
We have just travelled from S Africa back to UK so that hasn't helped routine etc but she was striking before we left so it's not just that.
Things I have tried: feeding at any time of day, skin to skin, formula (ready made and made up), different bottles and teats, daddy feeding, giving up and seeing if she'll ask for it (nope!).
She is ten months today so I guess I've got two more months of trying!
Next step-formula with her food!