Definitely give solids breakfast first!
We did this with DS who was refusing to eat much after milk, and now he's eating a good breakfast AND a good lunch
He gets solids at 8.30am, bottle at 10am, nap 11.30 - 2 (ish) and lunch at 2pm. You will need her to play for a while after the mid-morning milk so that she digests it and is good and hungry for lunch
I was amazed at what a difference it made to DS, and quickly too
Dried fruits such as raisins and apricots go down pretty well here, and have done since he was 6mo. He doesn't choke on them as he knows to chew then swallow. He could even manage them before he had any teeth! The worst that's likely to happen is that she'll gag and bring some bits back up. This is fine as it's how they learn to chew, and what size bits are ok to swallow. DS is even managing moist oaty fruit bars now