I am trying EASY on a now 10 week old. He is vey colicy and cries all the time. I read in the book not to allow more than 45 to an hour nap in the begining. But, he is so overtired and crying all the time. What do you do with all the extra Awake time? When I did let him sleep a lot more in the day, he didn't cry at all. But, I paid big time at night with hourly wakings. I just don't know what I am doing wrong? Should I stay with him all night and pat him? I feel that is what I am doing now anyway.