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Gigismom

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Re: 1 year old not sleeping
« Reply #15 on: April 07, 2006, 23:04:24 pm »
well let me know how it goes.  good luck!!

there are lots of other people on these boards with the same issues.  so come back anytime for support.   :)

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Re: 1 year old not sleeping
« Reply #16 on: April 13, 2006, 15:57:47 pm »
Thanks for your advice and support!!!

Last night was our best night of sleep yet, in over a year.  Ethan slept 7 hrs straight!  YEA :)  He's also been going to bed at 8:30 rather than 9:00 or 9:30, something he actually initiated.  About three or four nights ago he would walk over to the stairs leading to his room and say, "nigh, nigh".  So I've been able to feed him downstairs, carry him awake upstairs, lay him in his crib, give him a few pats and he's off to la la land.  I still nurse him at night when he wakes up because I usually can't get him down any other way and also my breasts are so full that I'd rather have him nurse to relieve the fullness.  Last night though he only work up twice and once was after 7 hours, the other was 2 hours after that.  I've also cut all caffeine out of my diet, which I think might also be contributing.  I do have a question though:  When he wakes up, how do I get him back down without nursing him?  I've tried pu/pd with some patting and he gets irate!  I've also tried to pick him up to calm him and that doesn't really work either.  That's why I usually just nurse him.  However in the four nights I've put him to bed without nursing his sleep time increases every night so maybe I should just wait and see if tonight he sleeps 8 or 9 hours? 

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Re: 1 year old not sleeping
« Reply #17 on: April 14, 2006, 01:38:29 am »
Wow that is awesome about the sleep!!!  you could try and see how it goes without doing any more intervening.  maybe he will just keep sleeping longer and longer.  it sounds like he is beginning to learn to sleep on his own at the beginning of the night, so that is a big step.  you can just wait it out and see if he starts doing the same when he wakes at night.  honestly, this is probly what i would do, just because i like to avoid sleep training when i can.  call me lazy!   ;)  for example, gianna had a double ear infection a couple of weeks ago and was so sick on top of it.  needless to say, our nights for a few days were absolutely horrible.  but then her antibiotics started working so her night wakings decreased.  but she was still waking up once or twice per night.  i would go in and hold her til she was fully asleep, which only took a min or two.  this went on for about a week more.  i sort of wondered if i should try sleep training her to break the bad habit we had gotten into, but then decided to wait a few more days.  and she stopped the waking on her own.  i think that she still was in some discomfort at night, so i really didn't want to push the issue, ya know?

however, if the wakings start increasing again and you don't want to bf him, i think that you will just have to pick a method and stick to it.  he will definitely get irate and it will definitely take you longer to get him back to sleep than if you bf him.  but that is just because he is getting a repsonse that he isn't used to.  he is mad because he expects to be bf and you aren't doing it!  but i think that you will have a couple nights of hell with this procedure, then gradually he will get better.  it usually only takes a few days for them to realize that it is now their job to put themselves back to sleep.  now that you know he techinically can go at least 7 hours without eating, at least you can rest assured you're not starving him or anything. 

keep me posted on your progress!!  good work!   :D