adamsmum, i dont think its accidental parenting, they do promote the use of a paci and swaddling in the book and it does help calm them down...but then again what do i know...i feel better after reading this now that i know im not the only one...its funny how some of the moms in my antenatal group have babies, mainly girls, who are already sleeping throught night, not much older than my Aidan, and they didnt even worry about a routine til later...here i am breaking my back and really concentrating on his naps, e.a.s.y, etc and he still wakes up!!! AAAHHH!! i just dont understand it...
im hoping its a phase, teething, etc and will wear off soon......