I'm not sure how useful it is to you but this is what I do with William, he is 9 months and 2 days and weighs.. about 27lb! (Very tall boy!) - and it is working really well!
Will's routine - incuding naps and feeding is as follows;
6am - bottle (8oz formula) , nappy change, back into bed until...
8am - gets up, nappy change and gets dressed, goes downstairs to play until...
10am - porridge / cereal (made with 8oz milk), then plays until,
11am - Naps until...
12.30pm - gets up, nappy change, goes downstairs to play until,
1.30pm - lunch, veggies/ savoury meal and drink of water (he used to have a bottle here until about 3 weeks ago but he dropped it himself as he repeatedly refused it - both before solids or after it , then plays or goes out for a walk etc until,
3.30pm - Naps until
5pm - up, nappy change, goes downstairs to play etc
5.30pm - tea, veggies/savoury meal followed by fruit / other sort of pudding then watches a bit of TV to let his food go down, until
6pm - plays with "quiet" toys, read books, go round the house in little car...
6.30pm - Daddy comes home so has cuddles and chats with daddy..
6.45pm - Bath time (3 nights a week)
7pm - gets ready for bed in his room and then has a bottle of 8oz and gets tucked into his cot (uses a growbag) and goes down for the night at about 7.15ish.
Regarding your LO dropping a bottle its pretty normal... William basicaly just started to refuse to drink the bottle at lunch time - it became a battle and to be honest if he doesnt want it / isnt hungry for it then he wont take it so its not worth the stress lol.. so I dropped it.
If you are concerned about getting more milk into your LO could you make her a rice pudding with her formula... I give William porridge made with his or use it on his weetabix so he keeps the milk intake up. The dairylea cheese spread on toast also gives him calcium and protein... I was going to give him cubes of cheese but it gives him tummy ache.. and my HV says not to give him yoghurt just yet as he has excema - but thats another good thing to give.
I'm no expert on all this but I hope my experiences with Will might help a bit!
H x