I hope someone can give me some advice on this and/or has gone thru the same thing! My son will be 19 MO on the 16th of this month.We have NEVER had a problem settling him for bed or naps. His routine is one nap about 9 to 11 am, then another nap about 130-230. This is consistent. He was never a great sleeper til he started walking at 12 months.
Well, last week he got a cold while he was teething. That is the only time he wants a lot of comfort and me in bed with him is when he is ill or teething. So he wakes last week and I comfort him of course. Well, he stopped his naps all together and everytime I put him down for one, he started crying and holding his arms up for me to pick him up. I thought it was cause he was sick. Well, he is all better now, no runny nose, nothing and it has been going on since last Thursday.
We have always been able to shut the door, have his nightlight and a bottle in bed and he would go off on his own after about 30 minutes. Now, forget it. The minute I shut the door, he starts crying for me. This has literally happened overnight. Nothing has changed, nothing has happened, he's just freaking everytime I try to put him in his crib for a nap and bedtime. We have left him to cry for about 10 min, last night I went in and rocked him in my arms, put him down when he fell asleep and he stayed asleep. But if he wakes and sees me, forget it. I have to take him to bed or rock him. and he is heavy!!
what is going on?? why all of a sudden does he seem so fearful??? can anyone help me with this?? my mother says its just a phase they go through but for how long?
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