Texomamma nice to hear from you. Currently the RT breast is so painful that i have not fed off it for 2 days. Dr. gave me a cream to use and i have been pumping. Debating whether to retry tomorrow or leave it one more day. I am currently like you doing formula for night feeds and hoping all other feeds in day will be breast. I would be completely happy if I could strike that balance. I just want to make sure she gets some breast milk too.
Still makes me feel dissapointed that it has not worked out the way I would have liked. DD1 who is 2 has become very demanding (understandably ) and I guess that has influenced the descision too.
Thanks for your help.