hello again . we are still in a very similar situation.
DD is almost 19 months and is still having 9.5-10hrs of sleep at night. She doesn't wake up during the night anymore like she used to but is having few crying spells but resettles in few minutes on her own. Her nap is anywhere between 2hrs and 2.5hrs (rarely 2hrs45-3hrs).
We are still on the same set times
Wu anywhere between 5:40-6:15am, very rarely past 6:15.
Nap at 12:30 in the crib and asleep by 12:40pm
WU anywhere between 2:40-3:00 usually. Sometime later. I tried waking her at 2hrs15m of sleep but it doesn't change the nights much. Maybe I need to do it more consistently or for longer stretch of time or wake her at 2hrs of sleep instead of 2hrs15m?
Crib at 7:20/7:30 pm. Asleep by 7:50/8:00pm.
I also tried moving her nap later thinking that maybe the too early nap might cause the EWU. I laid her in the crib at 12;40 but it didn't seems to change the nights by much either? maybe she needs more time for this to work? Once I laid her in the crib at 12:45 and she was so OT from EWU that it took her 1hr to fall asleep.
giving her an EBT will help only temporally, from the previous experience, and then she will go back to the same patter but it will shift our day earlier.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Or even any positive words. Just feel like a failure since I still can't get it right.
thanks