i just switched to breastfeeding first b/c the doc said ethan's weight is too low (25th percentile...and he was 10lbs, 9oz at birth!!! he's just under 17lbs now, and 7 months old tomorrow). he seems to be doing much better this way.
here's what we've switched to:
7am - breastfeed and then cereal with some fruit
11am - lunch (veggies, fruit) and then breastfeed
3pm - snack (baby crackers or something light, might switch this to cereal and leave dinner as just fruits and veggies) and then breastfeed
6pm - dinner (veggies, fruit or cereal)
7pm - breastfeed and bed
he's napping much better and seems happier all around. i don't think i was feeding him enough before b/c he wouldn't ever turn his head away from food. so i was portioning things out and i think my portions were too small. now i give him about one jar of veggies and one jar of fruit for his lunch and dinner and have upped his cereal to about 5tbsp in the morning and at night.
most of the moms in my baby group have been making the switch to solids before breastfeeding b/c of what their friends have done and/or doc's advice. i don't know that it really matters either way, but my doc wanted ethan to fill up more on solids and then have breastfeeding as a bit of "dessert". i haven't switched the first feed of the day though b/c that's when i'm most full and he gets the best feed.