try limiting the first nap to 1 hour. hopefully just 15 min will make a difference. this will also make her A time after this nap a little shorter than she is currently doing and shorten up your day a little bit. before they switch to 1 nap (not until 12-18 mo) their days may get a bit longer than 12 hours to accomadate all the A time and naps. this is ok, it'll switch back when she's ready to go to 1 nap. i found this age really tough!