Like Zoey said, it's absolutely normal for your lo to be needing at least one night feed at her age. I know that it's no fun to get up that often, but it is normal and she needs it right now so hang in there! It won't be forever.
Also, you should take a look in the EASY forum - there's example routines in there for each age. That might help you figure out some structure. The best bedtime depends on your lo, but most do best with a bedtime between 7 and 8. 9 is quite late.