Thank you both for replying.
Isabella&Jasmine's mum, thank you for explaining the counting part. That is what I hadn't got from all of the reading I had done.
As for SA, yes, he is very clingy. Yes, I hold him so much that I feel like I need to have him surgically removed. But he does go to sleep at bed and nap independently.
The night frights, I 'm not sure about that one. I was going by his intense scream.
Teeting, yes, I have tried meds and they do seem to work a little. There are bumps on his gums everywhere and there has been for over six months with nothing much happening.
The gas, well, I think I may have found the problem. Last night I gave him some oval drops, and he did way better. He woke early at 5:30 b/c he was cold. Then slept till 6:45.
I gave him the oval drops again tonight and I'll see what happens. I will be trying WI/Wo in the future if I need to. I like the concept.
Thank you both jaime-jaina&luke & Isabella&Jasmine's mum again.