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DSL or Routine Change?
« on: November 11, 2007, 23:53:53 pm »
Ella is 14.5 months old and has been on 1 nap since 12 months, which has been going great. Since the time change, she has been waking at 6/6:30 am (before DSL waketime was 7/7:30 am, so it seems she is stuck on this time). Keep in mind she has always tended to rob night sleep for day, which doesn't settle well with her because she'll wake early in the am not fully rested because she has ALWAYS needed a minimum of 11.5 hours at night, but she prefers 12. She has always been on the average to above average range of sleep needs.

Prior to the time change our routine was:
7/7:30: wake (out of bed at 7:30)
12:00: in crib for nap, asleep in 5-15 mins tops
2:15/2:30: awake, more than 50% of time have to wake her at 2:30
7:00: in bed, asleep in 10-20 mins. tops

Since the time change we have kept everything the same with the earlier am wakings trying to get her to adapt to the time change. She is asleep in just a few minutes for her nap and sleeping like a rock until I wake her at 2:30. At night she is asleep right away too. The only thing that bothers me is she is waking in the am not seeming fully rested and then getting cranky before naptime, which didn't happen prior to DSL. She is getting about 13.5 hours, which I think is about average. Prior to DSL she was getting about 14. I am wondering if I should cut nap to 2.25 or 2 hours, make bedtime a little later 7:15/7:30, or push nap a little later. We can't do nap earlier than noon due to schedules and I can't have bed any later than 7:30 because she doesn't do well if bed is past 7:30 and I am getting my master's full-time online and DH works the afternoon shift so I need a good amount of time in the evening to do work. Tonight she was extra tired as she spent the weekend at the IL's because DH and I were out of town, so I put her to bed at 6:30 and she was out like a light in minutes. I appreciate your feedback!!

Shannon
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Re: DSL or Routine Change?
« Reply #1 on: November 13, 2007, 01:22:20 am »
Shannon, if you pushed her the whole hour at once she is probably getting a little tired from that.... I wouldn't be pushing her bedtime any more as she is not really having trouble falling aslepe at night.

What time did she wake today? Ithink just give it a few more days for her body to adjust.



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Re: DSL or Routine Change?
« Reply #2 on: November 13, 2007, 17:06:40 pm »
Hi Layla,

I know I can always count on you to reply  ;) For DSL, it's like she knew because she took a long time to fall asleep for her nap (about 45 minutes, which usually is 15 max). So I let her sleep until 3:30 and then put her to bed 30 minutes later at 7:30. She slept until 6:30 the following morning (really 7:30 in her mind). I then kept everything the same following the new clock times. Yesterday she woke about 6:30/6:45 am after the 6:30 bedtime the previous night. I put her down a few minutes early for her nap yesterday and she woke just before 2:15. She went to bed at 7 pm like normal. This morning I heard her for a few minutes around 6 am, but then back to sleep until I woke her at 7:30 am. I think you're right about her needing a few more days to totally catch up to DLS. I think I am also going to wake her at 2:15 pm (down at 12 pm, asleep by 12:15 at the latest, so approximately 2 hours of sleep) from her nap so she is not cutting nights short and making up for it during the day. What do you think?

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Re: DSL or Routine Change?
« Reply #3 on: November 13, 2007, 22:40:32 pm »
That sounds like a good plan ;D :-*



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