Hi!
We always use a warm cloth, and find that frequent use of the wet wipes makes them more prone to redness and dryness.
I have an excellent 'do it yourself' recipe for bum cream that should help a lot - it's used in the Children's hospital here as the only bum cream. Hope it helps!
(I make this x 4 or 5 and save it - it keeps well, just have to mix it up with a popsicle stick or something because the friar's separates. You can get all these things from the pharmacy. They will order the friar's balsam for you if they don't stock it on the shelf, and they have unscented cold cream which is what you want to use. Be sure to use a non-stainable bowl and your electric mixer to mix, first softening the cold cream with the beaters, then adding the paraffin, then adding zinc, and finally a little bit of friars at a time.)
This is great for bum rash and regular bum cream. It's the best one we have used.
friar's balsam 5ml
cold cream 33gm
zinc cream 33gm
soft parrafin 29gm