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Offline brightside

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Any idea what's going on?
« on: February 21, 2008, 20:33:41 pm »
DS has never been a great sleeper. We seem to go from one issue to another with some good sleep inbetween. About a month ago, he was going to sleep independently and sleeping through MOST nights and having about 11 hours at night with 1.5-2 hours in the day. For a few weeks now though, he has been wanting us to stay with him at bedtime, taking ages to get to sleep and waking after 10 hours. I'm pretty sure he isn't getting enough sleep but have tried getting him to go to bed earlier but he definitely isn't tired enough and just bouncing about. For the most part he seems ok and not necessarily OT but this bedtime battle is unlike him. Sometimes at the weekend, when he is at home rather than daycare, he can be asleep by 11.30 and I have to wake him by 2.30. Its like he is catching up on the lost sleep.

typical routine at the moment
wake 6.30
nap 12.30-2
Wind down 7.30 in bed by 8    have tried bedtime at 7 so he is asleep by 7.30 but this hasn't worked.
asleep by 8.30 sometimes 8.45     

Bedtime seems to be getting later and he doesn't seem to be waking any later in the morning. He is 2y 3m old. By the way, he doesn't seem in the least bit tired at 8pm but I figure he needs to go to bed or he'll get OT.
Thanks for any thoughts
« Last Edit: February 21, 2008, 20:37:11 pm by brightside »
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Re: Any idea what's going on?
« Reply #1 on: February 21, 2008, 20:41:16 pm »
What is his routine at daycare? He could well be making up for lost sleep on the weekends...my ds doesn't sleep at daycare and wakes up early,has night wakings. I work mon-wed and for us it's really key for him to have a BIG nap on a thursday to reset his clock until monday comes around again. Fri-sun he has a 1 1/2hr nap,going to bed around 8ish,thursday I let im nap as long as he wants. He generally gets up around 6. Not sure if that's any help,lol!!!  :P
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Re: Any idea what's going on?
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2008, 18:09:45 pm »
He doesn't sleep too badly at daycare. Usually gets about 1.5 hours. At home he would have more than that if he'd only had 10 hours at night but then I don't really want to encourage the long nap in the day. I would rather he had more at night and then a shorter nap in the day. I'm just trying to figure out why he is only having 10 hours at night-to the minute. And why he won't go to sleep earlier at night if he is having so little sleep in total.  ::)
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