DS breastfed till he was 2. When he turned a year, we were still doing 4 feeds a day (6ish, 11ish, 3ish, and 6:30). He was eating 3 meals and had water with them (plus yogurt and cheese--he loves dairy) I sort of just followed his lead, and when he didn't seem interested in nursing in the evening anymore, I dropped that one. Then the 11, then much later the 3, etc. When he turned a year old, I intro'd cows milk (just sat a sippy on his tray with his water at one meal). When I dropped the 2 mid-day feeds, I added snacks with cows milk, and that's still how we do it today--water with and between meals, 2 cups of milk with snacks, plenty of dairy products in his meals. Extended nursing was an absolutely wonderful experience! So glad you are considering it!